Placenta/Uri di bawah?

Morninggggg. And good day. Dah nak hujung hujung pregnancy ni nampaknya lagi busy dari biasa. Sampai hubs and mama tanya: xtau penat ke? Even my bos pun cm: eh, bawaklah berehat. 

But things like moving out and all doesnt allow me to JUST REST. I need to do something; or at least packing up. Right? Dengan mana nak make sure baju bawak p rumah mama, baju to pack to new house, baju anak, baju laki semua. Hmm, not easy. 

Anyway, Harini nak share cerita pasal uri atau dikenali jugak dgn nama placenta. Masa mula mula check up i think around age baby 5 months, doc discover yang uri i di bawah. and not to worry sebab baru early pregnancy and chances uri tu bergerak agak tinggi. So mmg i worry sedikit shj. Masa around 6-7 months, doc check uri dalam condition yang okay. But my detailed scan shows that my uri dibawah again. So doc check kata uri kat atas. Ada confusion disitu. Anyhow last week check up doc lagi and uri kat bawah. And baby i da 8 months. Sobs.

*i jumpa banyak doc (government and private). So, KK refer I pegi government hospital untuk further checkup. I nak pegi semua check up yang dorang suruh to make sure my baby is safe and okay. Semua tanya why i nak jugak pegi gomen since i plan nak branak kat sjmc. Well, we never know kan. Plus apa salahnya dapat second opinion. Bukan mahal pun. 

So, I manage untuk dapat appointment at government hospital on 31 Dec 2015. Lega~ And my appointment kat SJMC is on 29th Dec and checkup KK is on 30th Dec. Nampak tak terus menerus. Hubs cakap, kena ke pegi semua and yes, i insist. Siapa tak penat? With the travelling, and que and waiting, I admit mmg penat lagi lagi perut da berat and da start sakit sakit kat bawah tapi try be in my shoes. Takpela I sacrifice sikit untuk kesenangan anak i nanti kan? 

Sorry, berbalik ke cerita uri di bawah. I mula mula blur and tak faham. Uri ni kena ada kat specific location or what? So bertanyalah dekat doc, why it is dangerous and all. Rupanya uri ni kena ada kat atas. So bila baby nak keluar or dah engage boleh la terus keluar without any halangan or blockage gangguan dari apa apa. Bila uri kat bawah, dia block baby dari keluar so, baby tak bole keluar. Like that. 

Macam gamba kiri, placenta/uri kat atas so baby boleh keluar terus. Mcm gamba kanan placenta/uri kat bawah so baby tak bole keluar. 

And darah akan banyak keluar, bleeding sebab uri kat bawah. Yes, ianya merbahaya. And more placenta ni ada 4 type. So kita kena tau la type mana satu sbb mmg merbahaya. Ada kes yang i dengar kat office, dia type 4 and bedridden since 7 month pregnant. Sobs. Kesian dia kan. Anyhow, i think semua kena aware pasal benda ni sebab i sendiri tak aware sampai kena kat diri sendiri. 

Ada yang kata boleh pegi urut. But, I dont know. I tak kot.

Ni 4 type placenta. Kena identify which type. Doc kata type III and IV most likely kena operate sebab mmg total block. Unlike Type I and II but tak boleh kata jugak takut banyak bleeding. So doc kat KK tu tulis reference letter yang i paham nampak cm type I or II. tapi dia mintak hospital double confirm sebab scan kat KK x berapa nampak/canggih/tak clear to determine exact location of the uri. Bila tgk gamba gini baru faham. Doc explain pun tunjuk gamba gamba mcmni. Kalau tak, tak reti nak imagine. 

So will update the post once i balik from checkup next week.

TNB and careless me

Im a very detailed person. Ask around; kadang tu orang marah sebab detail sangat. Mmg kadang baik kadang kadang tu menyampah jugak. Sendiri pun menyampah sebab da terbiasa so jadi routine. Anyway nak cerita pengalaman pegi bayar settle hal rumah sewa. Nak kene pasang air, electricity and many more urusan. 

Memandangkan i ni jenis prepare kan semua document awal-awal; semua i letak dalam one envelope siap clip bagai asing-asingkan ni untuk TNB, Syabas, TM and all. Tapi since I tak cuti ada meeting pagi tu, im a bit rushing untuk masuk balik office. I pay everything asked; and amik resit and go next. Contoh: Syabas - bayar - balik - TNB - bayar - balik - TM - bayar - balik - mati setem - bayar - balik - bank - bayar - balik. Cmtu. Semua dush dush dush.

Tiba tiba today baru ada masa nak documentkan semua details nak simpan receipt and all. Baru perasan yang I bayar TNB RM363.20 tapi resit i ada cuma RM263.20. mana pegi lagi RM100? Check yang lain semua ok. Kira balance sheet tu equal la kan. the thing is, setiap duit i keluar, i mmg terus tulis ada envelope yang i bawak kulurkilir tu so i can keep track on my expenses. Mmg detail i tulis semua. 

So I decided to call TNB punya care line. Dia kata I bayar only RM263.20 mcm receipt yang dikeluarkan. I mmg ingat i bayar 363.20 sebab:

1) Cash dengan i masa tu hanya ada 2++ tak sampai 300 so I kene p keluarkan duit dekat cimb yang i mmg xsuka sebab kena charge 1.06 sen. Yes, I ingat. So i draw 300 and topup the balance pakai current cash. 

2) Hubs pun ingat sebab we both mcm why so expensive. 

3) I write it down masa dia ckp berapa kena bayar and I bring the envelope with me ke ATM machine and withdraw that much jugak.

I admit, mmg salah I sebab tak check. I was really in a rush and the receipt is just too much with the forms and all. Thats my fault. Well, im here not to blame them or the person in particular but; i remember. Takpelah mungkin RM100 tu da tertulis bukan rezeki i. And i mmg redha and silap i tak tgk receipt. I takdala harap refund semua cuma i mintak TNB untuk investigate; at least. Takkan kat cashier takda cctv ke apa ke sebab when i call the centre dia cakap on the day i make payment takda pun duit terlebih. And ada orang kira duit balance cukup je. Takpela, itu antara you and Him. 

Cuma my advice to all, jangan jadi careless mcm I. Sebab nak rushing punya pasal, I tak check receipt betul2. Lesson learned. My hubs pun pelik sebab i ni jenis cermat. Semua bill and bank statement i akan tgk satu satu. Yang ni terlepas pulak. Ish ish. Tapi x pela. Benda nak jadi kan. Nak buat cmna.

Just sharing =) 

Branded Mattress & Sofa Warehouse Sale!

Peeps! I'm happy sebab satu benda da settle. Yay! Walaupun for the very last minute tapi sempat jugak drop by and purchase! Actually before this ada bagitau hubs nak p Pearl Point check it out the sale tapi hubs kata takda need pun since we both taktau bila dapat masuk rumah pun. So I redha sebab mmg betul pun la apa dia cakap. Saja nak pegi tgk buat apa kan. Nak survey pun lambat lagi kang lupa jugak price dia. 

Tiba tiba dapatlah rumah! Haha! And bump into the poster kat tepi jalan MRR2 tu banyakkk. Dapatlah ajak hubs pegi last Saturday on 19th Dec. Mmg da nak habis la promo nye tapi sempat yang penting!

Event located dekat hall space and mmg banyak type of bed and mattress dia offer. Ada cheap, moderate and expensive lah. Tilam dia ada buy 1 free 1 for RM999 and mmg not bad la material dia. King and Queen bed mmg banyak option tapi kalau single i rasa nampak few shj. 

And price dia mainly depends on jenis mattress. Kingkoil kalau mmg mahal lah. And divan bed dia mmg banyak pilihan sila sediakan duit shj.

Memandangkan me and hubs ada constraint budget (around 2k shj) so kita pun sedar diri and cari price ikut budget allocated. What I love about this warehouse sale is dia display price. I mmg benci kalau tak letak harga, like everytime u have to ask the seller cm lecehnya nak buat comparison. Kalau ada 10 bed type nak tanya tak ke naya nak ingat each price satu satu.

Price display untuk matress shj or bed shj or complete set. Senang! 

So bermula hunting day 1 di sana. Since we plan nak survey kat lain-lain kedai jugak.

Day 2: 20th Dec; LAST DAY

Lps da survey, pls refer prev entry. We decide untuk beli Full Set King which cost us RM2.4k. I know lebih bajet tapi what to do. Hubs berkenan sejenis tilam yang mahal sikit. Haha. So we kena choose design nak kain jenis apa, design bed and all. As usual hubs yang pilih sebab nanti i pilih kang dia tak berkenan. So always up to him! Hehe.

31 Dec ni delivery! Cant wait!! And buat masa skrg kena la gigih kemas rumah and basuh semua dulu. =.=

But ada cerita sedih. I berkenan satu set meja makan ni. Cantik and sangat sangat berkenan. Both of us mcm susah nak let go not to buy. Promo price pulak RM1.5k. Nangessss. Budget taktau dah nak kira cmna. Nak beli mmg senang swipe je tapi part nak bayar tu alahai. Tak berapa nak gigihhhh. Bila termenung2 dalam kedai tu, last last we pun redha and balik.

Walaupun ada few times, I asik terfikir nak patah balik-Tapi mengenangkan dah habis dah pun sale nye. So maybe next time lah. Masa rumah sendiri dah siap tahun 2017 tu nanti beli la kot. Rented house tak payah nk cantik2 sangat kan. Bukan pakai pun bukan ada orang nak dtg pun kan. haaaa. ayat hati nak sedapkan diri sendiri.

Taaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Hunting Tilam and Bed

Its been a long weekend. Since last Thursday tak masuk office. Thursday outstation - kena drive =( and friday mmg amik annual leave sebab nak pickup my family from umrah. Sabtu and Ahad occupied. ni nak cerita. Kan this year end nak pindah rumah, so berangan la on weekend nak settle kan packing *KONONLAH* 

Flight my family delay almost 2 hours and nak que amik beg pun lama! So around 2pm baru settle semua. Send my parents home and relaks kejap baring baring sebab malam tu ada dinner BBQ kat rumah aunty. Habis dinner we terus balik KL and off to sleep. Tak boleh blah mmg penat sangat. So beranganlah on Saturday boleh relaks and packing. 

Saturday datang. Tido tido and hubs pegi jogging jauh di Titiwangsa with his friends. Stay home hungrily. Pegi rumah MIL and lepak lepak until lunch. Lepas tu mission konon nak pegi hunting katil tilam for our new house. Mmg rasanya tu la je yang we both nak beli dulu sebab nak kena simpan duit for our beloved baby ni kan. I bump into this sale dekat pearl point i x perasan kat mana I ternampak tapi iklan dia banyak area KL. So memandangkan hubs da keluar early in the morning pegi jogging and dia pun layankanlah wife dia nak hunt for a bed mattress. 

Nanti i buat separate entry pasal this warehouse sale kat Pearl Point. Sangat exciting. I pernah google google and cari kot kot la ada yang jual online katil tilam ni. Im looking for a divan bed set sekali mattress. Budget dalam 2k only. Mula mula hubs rasa I over estimate the budget (not knowing the wife dah buat survey thru web) so I bring him and show him around. Dah pegi pearl point and since tu baru our first shop, hubs nak p survey tempat lain. So haritu ada nampak iklan area Mydin Subang. Pegila MFO outlet USJ19 Subang. Dah tgk kat fb and web dorang, the price is much more cheaper dari Pearl Point (Kinsen Home). Excited la ni nak p.

Sampai sampai. Alahai. Mmg banyak choice jugak tp mahal. Price display hanya for either the bed only atau mattress only. Which is mahal. Tilam je dah 2k++ katil pun sama nak 2k++ apa nya tak within budget langsung! Pastu dia xnk pulak recommend yang murah2, katanya tak elok. Hello, kau pegi advertise semua kat web fb bagai tu semua yang cheap cheap only not this expensive. Dan dan sampai sana kata tilam ni x bagus la apa la. Nk kene cepuk ke apa. So we left. Haih. Memandangkan dah malam, we end up in Aeon Extra ke apa yang warna oren tu nak beli trolley nak pindah barang senang. Tgh shopping dapat call from my parents ajak late dinner kat Tupai Tupai mini celebration untuk birthday abah (19 Dec). 

Habis dinner sangat lambat. Nama pun late dinner. So we decide untuk tido je la rumah parents sebab hubs mmg da pancit malas nak drive. Esok pagi sharp at 10am we terus pegi rumah MIL nak jumpa anak buah kesayangan hubs. Sampai around lunch time we decide untuk balik settlekan our mission nak cari KATIL. haha. 

Pegi pulak kat Viva Home since kat sana famous jual perabot2. Ada promo christmas RM2399 dapat tilam sekali set divan bed yang ada diamond2 tu (i mmg suka bed dia) tilam theraflex and free bantal 2, bantal peluk 1 and comforter set. Not bed kan? Delivery 10 days. Lupa amik gambo. Kedai lain nan ado, semua mahal mahal belaka.

And singgah jugak normal furniture shop mana tau price cheaper kan. Tidak jugak. Mahal lagi adalah. Design pulak sangat old old. Price mmg lagi mahal. Haduhh. So hubs kata either kat Viva tadi atau kat Kinsen, Pearl Point. So nak confirm balik rasa tilam kat pearl point. we pun p lagi sekali. The warehouse end on that day (20 Dec). Dah tgk2 hubs, cheapest for King Size bed sekali dengan tilam is around 2.2k. Tilam Vono with 15 years warranty. Tapi hubs berkenan tilam upgrade lagi soft and selesa which cost us RM2.4k. 

Memandangkan tilam ni VONO and we both familiar dengan brand ni, we pun decide untuk beli. Actually I berkenan satu lagi tilam KingKoil kot nama dia tapi sampai RM3.4k so tak jadi lah. *nanges* last last hubs je la decide semuanya. Redha. SO bayar deposit of RM1.2k (half) nanti da beliver bayar balance. Nanges lagi. Estimate date is on 31 Dec 2015 sebab the bed tu kena buat. Kalau tilam only mmg ada. Hubs pulak tukar color and material semua. Nanti end product kita tgk sama sama k?

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Kenapa i taknak beli tilam yang cheaper sedikit and normal bed?

1. Experience - I mmg tak suka tilam yang bila da lama sikit dia bunyi2, patahlah segala. Before this our tilam dreamland (takdala mahal sangat) mmg berat, so katil tu mmg tak dapat menampung keberatan tilam together with me and hubs. Patah je yang kayu support tu. Ada sampai terkankang kaki katil tu. So kalau nak beli katil bed yang normal kena pastikan tilam pun xda la berat nau.

2. We both love staying at hotel. Mainly sebab the atmosphere and ambient dia especially bed yang selesa. Pantang betul pegi hotel bila tilam rumah lagi empuk dr tilam hotel. 

3. Semenjak pregnant ni, I find it hard untuk tido atas tilam yang tak comfort. Haritu tido bukan di rumah atas tilam yang senget bengkok and end up sakit pinggang *nanges* 

4. Untuk new baby? Hehe. Ala alang alang nak beli biarlah yang elok sikit kot? Haha.

Maggi Ketam

Officemate dok borak borak pasal mee ketam. Adui. Mana pulak nak cari ye kawan kawan. They said kat area Puchong and Melaka. Wahhh Melaka jauhnya. Google la tgk2 kot ada area KL ni kan. TIADA YA. Nak kata ngidam mmg tak sangat; i mmg jarang ngidam cuma bila disebut sebut tu rasa mcm, eh why not. Haha. So dont mention food infront of me! Im dangerous. Haha.

Nak jadi cerita hubs pun layankan aja. Actually the fact that dia pun sangat suka maggi ketam so dia pun sama sama hunting memburu. Last last hampa. Pegi groceries nak cari ketam buat sendiri aja la. Takda pulak. Haha maybe da malam ketam pun da habis. Nasib kat tesco ada =.=

Hubs mmg minat masak benda benda yang pelik. So dia pun bertukanglah kat dapur. As usual, kena buat 2 kali sebab his mesti pedas gilak and mine kena biasa2 gitu. And like usual dia akan buat I punya dulu (bukan sebab sweet, pls. at first i rasa cmtu gak, but NO) mine is a test/experiment - sukat air banyak sangat or sikit sangat, telur kene gaul or biar bulat, rencah tomyam letak satu sudu or dua sudu - like that experiment ok. get it? So mine will turn out less nicer than his. Yes. It happen everytime. Lol. Takpela as long his cooking it. Haha.

SO the final look? Jeng jeng jeng

 This is mine. No spicy. No Vege. So simple. 

Hubs. So full of vege! And spicy too! 

Ni lah hasilnyaaa.

Sedappppp ;p

Moving in and out.

Brrpp.. Kenyang. Alhamdulillah.

I received a call yesterday morning cakap the rented house that i wanted available. Fuhh; lega. So boleh la start moving in and out. Tak lama pun nak rent sebab our house siap tahun 2017 ada lagi 2 years shj. Me and hubs mmg excited sebab rumah ni dekat dengan my office and hubs office. Hubs love it much more bila ada padang bola sejebuk besar kat area tu. Haha. And ada few park yang suai buat dia berjogging. Fine. As long as ure happy b.

So bermula la semula kena settle few things mcm TNB, Syabas, Wifi and etc etc. Nak collect deposit from previous house and cancel everything which i rasa takdala susah mana. Part yang I hate most is still packing stuff (=

Even tho i sangat excited nak beli benda baru for our new place; I still mampu kot untuk control emosi. Dengan nak deliver lagi kan. So kena la berjimat. Sebab kat previous house semua da ready, the sofa, katil, tilam, bantal for each room! We both hanya beli electronic items which is tv, washer, dryer, fridge, oven - tu je la kot yang besar besar. And barang kawin yang banyak include 2 microwave. Aha! 

So for our new house ingat nak beli katil and tilam yang sedap untuk tidur (yang mcm hotel tu) and sofa aja lah dulu. Nanti ada rezeki lebih sikit baru lah ingat nak add on. Sebab new house is a bit smaller compared to prev. Berangan dah nak beli katil mana satu! Haha. 

How to pack stuff when ure pregnant? I tried once and turn out hubs bising betul sebab i tak buat siap siap separuh jalan lepas tu asik bersin je. I ada allergic dust mmg dari kecik sampai besar tak boleh nak excited sapu sampah semua. Lagi lagi bila pregnant ni tak sampai hati nak bagi baby pun sakit. So hubs kata dia akan kemaskan rumah semua. Which Im truly happy. BUT. BUT

Last weekend hubs kemas almari dia and susun semua sebab baju dia mmg da banyak tak muat almari. Dia amik la space i yang i letak my stuff like make up, all accessories and lain lain. Fine, i dont mind. Infact lepas kawin i mmg da x pakai sangat benda benda fancy ini but that doesnt mean i dont want them. oi i invest so much on them kan. simpan ler. husband i boleh buang semua barang barang tu which i was like......hey you! I siap check dalam plastic beg yang dia jadikan tempat sampah and godek balik one by one. Nak nanges tau and jadi emosi sangat! Tempat i letak semua bracelet i - dia put aside my bracelet and letak his watch collection!! Oi oi oi. Kamoonn. Haha. Pastu pastu my mum punya present (bracelet and ring) dia letak je kat bawah meja. Lagi double amboi. Tapi all of his specs tu reti pulak susun cantik2 dalam almari. Boleh tak i tak bengang? 

Mcm ni dia kata dia nak tolong pack all my stuff? I DONT THINK SO! Mesti end up dia buang semua barang barang i. Nanges. So i kena fikir strategy cmna nak pack semuanya sekali gus. Enough said. 

First step ialah I kena pegi shopping beli beg plastic sampah warna hitam yang tebal untuk letak semua baju baju i. Yes, nak letak dalam apa lagi. I tak rasa kotak boleh fit it semua and kalau hujan kotak mmg tak suai. And I kena beli trolley supaya senang nak dump everything and tolak aja ke kereta. 

Mission I kena bermula dengan pantas dan cepat sebab mmg dah tak cukup masa. I kene move by this month! And today dah 16th! Adoiiii. Itu je cara yang I nampak. Dump everything masuh plastic beg and off we go! Haha! 

Any other idea?

Okok lets start planning now. 

Masih lagi dilema Breastpump

Rasanya banyak kali jugak nak pegi try breastpump tapi x pegi pegi. Baby harini alhamdulillah 31 weeks. So kena start cari masa untuk test and beli. Bila pending beli ni, everytime plan nak beli mesti kena buat research lagi to double confirm. Smpai penat dah. Adatu terbaca review yang sama berulang kali mcm dejavu. Haha.

Yesterday hubs ajak pegi try dekat kedai pumponthego. Tapi hubs habis kerja lambat. Pukul 9 baru pickup from office mmgler tak sempat. So harini memandangkan Selangor cuti (im working, hubs not) harini la lepas kerja nak pegi sana to check it out. 

Kebetulan yesterday ada meeting at Melaka and my friend kat sana ada la bagi sikit tips breastpump. dia ada 2 anak and pakai madela FS. dia ada offer hers since dia pun mcm nak habis pakai. pinjamla kiranya. tapi xtaula sempat ke idaknya. Anak dia baru 4 months. So dia ada share experience kawan2 seperjuang dekat office sama sama masa BP. 

She suggest Spectra but not sure which model. Dia kata sangat senyap compared to her. Sampai segan katanya maybe hers dah lama since first baby tapi dia kata beli mula mula pun mmg cmtu dah bunyi dia. And another one Lacte pun diam je bila BP. 

Bila i google untuk tgk Spectra review, most of it suka sebab dia very cute but the suction itu kasar sikit. Well, I actually mmg tak paham semua ni. No experience at all. Bila dia bercerita pasal suction, shield and mcm mcm lagi, i was like hmmm.. and the spare part. hmm. So baik i give it a try kan?

1. Madela FS (mahal)

2. Spectra (dont know which model)

3. Lacte Duet

Dari 2 shortlist from previous dah tambah lagi 1. Bila baca baca review somehow hati ni berat nak beli Lacte Duet. Tapi still i nak jugak p try. I tak boleh nak imagine juga nak test cmna. Everytime orang test test tu dia basuh ke, or cmna dia test the thing actually. Haha. Pelik. Nanti la petang nanti tau kot. 

And memandangkan I mmg tak beli apa apa botol storage ke ice pack ke apa; ingat nak la beli yang ada free set tu sekali =.= My friend dapat beli dengan price RM420 including free gift. Ada satu website ni offer murah jugak incl free gift which is momsbreastfeeding.blogspot.my boleh try la i blom give them a call lagi. 

BUKAN RM 759 
BUKAN RM 699
BUKAN RM 499
TAPI SEKARANG  SPECIAL OFFER
HANYA RM 399 aje !!

Hubungi kami untuk  DAPATKAN

OFFER harga runtuh Termurah 

LIMITED STOCK !! SIAPA CEPAT DIA DAPAT

Pasti murah !! Pasti jimat !!

FREE 1PCS COOLER BAG 
FREE 1PCS ICE PACK
FREE USB CABLE (bole guna powerbank,laptop car charger)
FREE 5PCS ZIPLOCK PLASTIC
FREE 2PCS BOTTLE CONVERTER

free gift design / warna bag bergantung pada stok semasa

Above i copy paste dari the web eh. I tak promo ke apa and i dont even know price tu still available ke tak sebab i nak p test dulu. Dia takda kedai cuma dia kata boleh COD. tapi so far lepas pegi fair and check2 online, the price mmg paling murah. Siap include freegift. 

Nanti i update lagi kalau I beli with the seller ok?

Bye.

My Baby Super Active

Assalamualaikum. Harini nak share experience pasal movement baby. Remember my previous post pasal tracking movement baby and it is important? Yesterday, I ada bagitau hubs yang baby sangat active bergerak masa dekat office. Tapi sebab tak focus sangat sbb kerja kan takdala amik port sangat. But when reach home, and baring baring like usual, I can really feel the superactiveness baby dalam perut. It makes me worried. Sebab nurse cakap kalau movement baby lain sikit; not too active and too active kena pegi hospital to check. In my case, my baby mmg too hyper active. I told hubs and dia mcm, eh its goodlah baby active, we should be worried kalau dia xda movement. And I explain to him why i rasa weird. Dia reluctant nak p hospital. So I pun show him for half an hour (look at my tummy)(without putting his hand to fill it) mmg nampak perut i beralun alun baby gerak sana sini sana sini mcm ombak2. Which for me is not normal. Hubs mula mula mcm, ala dia tgh active, but lama lama dia mcm, eh ni kuat betul ni. Non stop gerak gerak and i can even record it! Dia mcm tgh main football or swimming or gymming. 

Hubs taknak la pegi hospital in the middle of the night kan, so dia mintak I call my mummyalike Matron K untuk dapatkan kepastian. And I did call, she's busy driving sbb hubs dia masuk hospital emergency. So I pun xnk la kacau dia. End up I called my engineer friend yang wife dia ialah doctor (I KNOW) haha. So I pun explain my condition. 

Her respond mmg make sense. Only mother je yang tau lain or x lain movement baby. Only the mummy can tell. (which is me?) So dia tanya bila last 10 movement; so last mmg around 2.10pm i da complete 10 movement. Dia tanya I ada makan manis manis ke, or minum gassy ke or anything yang buat baby jadi active. I rasa mmg takda. So dia tanya lagi, sakit ke tak. I pun cakaplah tak sakit. Doc suruh I rehat dulu and kalau sakit terus pegi hospital. 

And I mmg tak sakit. Rasa movement baby bergerak je tapi takdala sakit maybe mcm ada benda gerak2. So I end up not going to the hospital. And hubs pun suruh tido je terus.

Thats why tracking the baby movement is important. Bila ada chances kecik mcm ni pun; alhamdulillah I boleh terperasan. So today I teruskan tracking nak cukup 10, bila da cukup insyaallah baby ok.

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My mood swing

Mood Swing. Masa pregnant mmg emotion unbalance. Hubs perasan and selalu layankan walau kadang tu dia penat and malas nak layan. Ialah, dengan lenguh2 badan, sakit pinggang and too tired kan with the hormon lagi. SO MAYBE SEBAB TU ADA MOOD SWING. 

Hubs menjadi seorang yang sangat understanding. (Hope it continues) Hubs mmg orangnya sangat penyabar. I tak pernah jumpa orang sesabar hubs. He know how to control his own emotion and i envy him much. But understanding ni, oh man, mmg semua lelaki akan ada masalah untuk faham the ladies kan. Ialah, we also sometimes dont understand ourself. 

Again, being moody ni uncontrollable. I always being sensitive and cry for some reason. Contoh masa hubs kena pegi outstation, tiba tiba emo ni menangis. Haha. Orang tu pegi kerja je pun. Tapi I always worry sebab travelling tu kan. Selalu doa semoga perjalanan pegi dan balik selamat. So i prefer kalau dia pegi tak drive. Long distance mesti penat. 

And yesterday masa hubs nak pegi balik kampung tgk arwah atuk yang baru passed away. I tak nanges cuma emotional sebab kena ada distance lagi. Nowadays kalau boleh I nak hubs berkepit je dengan I. Lepas tu I okay. Lepas I tanya sampai KL balik pukul berapa, hubs kata malam or pagi the next day. Emo lagi. I cant help it. Ni da lega sikit sbb hubs kata da safely arrived kampung at 5.15 am. Mak naik kereta dengan hubs, so percaya sikitlah sbb dia ngn abang tak boleh la nak laju sangat. But I DONT THINK SO. Mak sure LOLAP gerak pun pukul 12 malam cmtu.

And u can be angry or tense so fast. So u better sleep and get a lot of rest. Maybe sebab penat, lepas tu mcm mcm lah. Hubs pun rajin massage i. So lepas tu I lega and sleep well, and he can play PS all night long. 

I think its normal la kan being mood swing masa pregnancy. Ingat ladies ni saja saja ke nak emosi tak tentu pasal. Penat ok. Make your spouse understand your situation. 

JobLess

kadang kadang rasa mcm nak jadi adviser or counselor untuk orang muda yang baru nak kawin or yang asik tukar tukar kerja ni (mcm la da expert sgt!) I ni ada masalah untuk mendengar masalah orang, sebab i xtau kenapa orang boleh berfikiran sedemikan rupa. But to just ignore but susah mcm rasa, meh la i bagi sikit advice yang tak seberapa. Maybe I patut tukar profession. I takda la expert, truth is semua kerja berbeza beza. Cuma orang muda skrg ni tak boleh nak susah sikit. Semua nak terbentang luas, taktau mcm mana mak ayah susah susah kerja cari rezeki. Lucky me my siblings semua Alhamdulillah, mau bekerja and can take advice. 

I have this close kenalan, not so close tapi kenal la. Both couple age 24 planning nak kawin in 2017 and engage 2016. And i was like, eh tak ke awal lagi. 26 nak kawin, masing-masing baru nak start kerja cari duit. Give some times lah. I tau lagi cepat kawin lagi bagus. Tak elok lewatkan perkahwinan. Tapi mestilah both ready not only nak kawin semata but mentally and physically kena ready. Bila tanya napa nak kawin awal, sebab nak have fun travel together. Ala dik. Belum kawin pun can travel together (in group) there's always way. OK tapi bab kawin ni I mmg xnk masuk campur. Cuma bab kerja ni. The guy baru dapat stable job with high salary (technical) and kena travel most of the time. The lady pulak baru tukar kerja and yet to confirm. Lady part okay la baru kerja. She's quite a smart person sebab previously kerja dekat big company (I cant recall the name) dah confirm, salary okay, CUMA.. STRESS KERJA. So decide untuk quit. STRESS kerja dik, takkan sampai quit kn. But okay la dapat big oil company contract for 1 year, kalau ok dia amik kalau x off you go. So baru 6 months and ada another 6 months to go. So I ask how was it, alaa tak challenging la, too easy and relax unlike previous company mmg sgt challenging. DIK OI, apa awak nak dalam hidup pls?

I terus like, so? Maybe taknak la proceed kerja ni. Nak quit and buat business kek. Duduk rumah jual cake. Alahai sounds so easy. Dik kalau akak tau sesimple ni punya kerja, akak da berhenti kerja jual semua benda. Tapi not just yet. You cannot quit sebab too stress, or not challenging dik. U kene starts business sebab u mmg nak. U da ada market, well known dah establish bagai baru la boleh nak start full swing.

Adik nak apa? Adik nak kerja tak stress sebab tu quit, bila dapat adik kata tak challenging too easy. Elok lah too easy so u takda la stress busy. Dik nak apa? U cannot have both kan? Alahai, penat dengar je baru. Truth is, my previous job mmg sgt busy and stressful. I feel like running away but i just go with it. Skrg pulak slightly slow phase maybe sebab I pregnant and not given that many task yet. So i just relaks and enjoy. After all, its not your job kalau kerja sikit kan? 

I use to talk with my hubs about my current work conditions. How free I was, how bersalah I am for not helping the busy person around and how incapable am I  help because my knowledge on this new field is totally zero. But what he said is true. It is all not my fault at all. I still get paid regardless. Maybe I was underpay previously (haha). He said, I just have to relax and enjoy. Why should I care so much? Its not that I did not do my job.

Yes, true! But I didnt quit. I cuma wonder patutke i ask for a transfer back to my previous job which is more ME than here. But think about it, mmg lah sebab i baru nak naik step by step mcm mana nak lari terus kan. So I stay here, patiently and learn.

Thats the beautiful part of it. U make new friends, u have different environment, I have more ME time, I can even check whats wrong with my bills (hubs notice i have a lot of free time sampai boleh check bills and complain. KehKeh.)

So make use of the free time kan? I siap calculate monthly expenses. Haha. Not to forget to calculate my baby movement! So good kan. Haaaaaa

Eh tiba tiba about diri sendiri. Back to the top, so I end up explain la, nak kawin ni bukan senang and bukan susah. Mmglah lelaki gaji besar, tapi skrg ni kerja bukan boleh cakap, kena buang bila bila je. So both kenala ready. Lepas tu nak beli rumah more than half a million harga dia, nak bayar cmna tu dik.

mmg kita perempuan, bergantunglah kepada lelaki. tapi zaman skrg ni, mcm mcm boleh jadi. so kena independent jugak. with our economy yang ramai da kena buang ni, appreciate lah kerja masing-masing. Sounds like sangat busy body kan? But it is just my 2 cents!

Sending loves UMRAH

Sending family pergi umrah. Alhamdulillah da touch down di Jeddah and arrived Madinah. Semalam hanta my family (all siblings except me, hubs and brother). Yang lain semua ada rezeki untuk menunaikan Umrah. My parents cakap tunggu next year, Insyaallah pegi lagi sebab skrg pun da sarat. Nak naik flight long hours and naik bus lagi takut restless maklumlah first pregnancy xtau apa nak expect. 

Sedih juga cannot follow them, if not the whole family dapat pegi sama sama. My brother tak dapat cuti sebab year end busy dengan closing account kena audit sana sini. My hubs pulak takkan la nak tinggal i bersendirian kan. My MIL pun pegi sama sama. So both mother is currently away. My aunty Mizah incharge of me now. Hehe.

Well, since my grandmother pun pegi. This trip lebih relaks i rasa. Semua sekali 14 orang including my 7 months anak buah. Yes Melur pegi. So next year, Insyaallah kalau panjang umur dan dimurahkan rezeki baby A pun dapatlah pegi sama sama. Can't wait. 

Oh btw, yes so they booked with Felda Travel. Naik flight AirAsia. My parents takkan conencting flight sebab terkejar-kerja last time kena lari dari hujung dunia satu ke hujung dunia sebelah. Haha and imagine macam mana my grandma and MIL nak jalan jauh mcm tu. So Emirates mmg da out of the list. My dad pun jadi bingung sebab tak pernah lagi naik Airasia pegi jauh2 takut seat space tu sempit. Tapi memandangkan direct flight, so proceed jugak.

I pernah sampai KLIA 2 masa p honeymoon last year. Tapi masa tu baru baru bukak so kedai pun limited and not crowded. Tiba tiba sampai tudiaaaaa, penuh betul dengan situ kedainya, situ nak kumpul beg, situ nak check in. Mmg serabut betul. I dont know kat dalam mcm mana bila da check in skrg. Sebab dulu cantek2 and very spacious kat dalam tu lepas dah check in. 

The parking there is quite expensive. RM15 for berapa jam ntah. Kalau nak p sana shopping only not advisable lah mahal sangat. Tapi dorang kata mall tu open 24/7. And banyak jugak kedai dia. And parking dia sangat jauh. I dont know kenapa ada shuttle tapi berparking je. Tak friendly langsung i kena jalan jauh sebab parkingnya. Haihh.

Basuh baju baby

Last Saturday gasaklah membasuh semua fabric baby dari kain ke bedung ke selimut. Ni actually da second session mencuci sebab terbeli dan beli lagi. Nekad dah last day taknak beli lagi. Bazir nak masuk dryer cannot campur with baju lain and kena jalan. Hehe. Kena settlekan sebelum sarat and readykan semua barang so senang hubs nak cari cari. Since hubs pun busy bergame (he miss the game so much) so dari mengelakkan i moody tak tentu pasal, baiklah i mencari kerja. 

Dah pernah beli Pureen detergent ni (tgk my sis pakai). Dia kata takut baby sensitive so masa kecik2 kena pakai khas detergent untuk baby. The smells so nice so good. Takda la masuk washer cuma rendam2 sikit and biarkan bau serap dalam kain and bilas. Masuk dryer. 

Beli kat Jusco masa sales and i cannot remember how much. Masa pegi Expo Baby kat midvalley pun ada beli brand Pureeen cuma try test powder pulak. Yang ni liquid. Tapi powder tu tak bukak lagi and simpan kat rumah mama.

So far, dah ada banyak barang baby. Alhamdulillah sikit sikit list barang da selesai. Cuma ada juga few important items yang belum beli such as breastpump and set berpantang. 

Update: Sunday masa balik rumah mama stop by Subang Parade for lunch, and we end up beli another 2 set of baju baby, 1 shirt and 1 sweatshirt. I know. So kena basuh lagi for third round =.=

Update Monday: My aunty da siapkan bedung for my baby. Ada 3. So mmg kena basuh but somehow i rasa dia jahit tak habislah. I dont know if bedung mmg kene jahit 2 sisi je instead of 4. So tunggu mama balik dulu lah. 

List barang mummy to bring pegi hospital

Hmm. I still blm pack anything to bring to the hospital. Pejam celik pejam celik today da 30 weeks. So masa chatting with one of my senior mate dia bagitau 36 weeks tu baby da ready untuk keluar. So mummy pun kenala ready sama ye. I was in shock. Since i kat EDD February. So 36 weeks tu masa January. Haha. Gelabah lebih.

So terus la cari list of things to bring. It depends also u nak bersalin kat mana ye. Sebab kalau in private most of it akan tersusun tersedia berbaloi la dengan the price u pay. So I pun decide untuk pack all in; regardless i bersalin private mahupun government. Kenapa dekat government list lain? Sebab banyak yang tidak disediakan; berbaloi la dengan the price u pay. And I read some blogs yang kata even nak makan and minum pun kene bring from home. So kene fully prepared kalau tak lapa nanti sebab takda orang teman malam malam. 

Why ready for both? Tiba tiba sakit kat tempat kerja mau kena rush pegi any nearest hospital mana dan nak pilih pilih. Tiba tiba sakit officemate hanta p Hospital Serdang ke Hospital Putrajaya ke Hospital Kajang ke HUKM ke or mana mana ke yang ambulans hanta ke. Drama sungguh sampai ambulans hanto. Just incase la kan. Jgn dia hanta hamba ke PCMC sudah ler. Nanges nak membayarnya.

So, this is my list yang menggabungkan kesemua element. Berpegang pada prinsip; biar lebih jangan kurang. 

For Mummy:

1. Baju yang selesa (at least 2 pairs) pls bawak yang button depan blkg and breastfeeding friendly ( i have to change mine!)

2. Kain batik (at least 2)

3. Toiletries (tooth brush/paste/shampoo/shower/cleanser)

4. Disposal Panties/Undergarments

5. Disposal Maternity Pad (I dont have) banyak yang advice beli normal pad je yang overnight wing tu sebab lagi selesa. So i tak beli maternity pad. 

6. Towel (Face/Bath)

7. Sandal (toilet and make sure open toe)

8. Stokin tebal (at least 2)

9. Tudung (bawakla extra - to make sure nak keluar hospital ada tudung cantek sket)

10. Nursing bra i only beli 2 sebab somehow I tak berapa selesa. Tapi rasa mcm kena tambah lagi.

11. Sweater

For Baby:

1. New born outfit (4 set - campur long/short sleeve)

2. New born disposal diaper

3. Towel (Face/Bath)

4. Mitten & Booties

5. Blanket/Bedung

6. Baby Wipes

7. Head To Toe Gel

8. Topi

9. Barut

For daddy (Yes, U want him to stay, DONT YOU? So make a list so he cant escape or give reason to go back home, haha!)

1. Baju

2. Selimut

3. Berus gigi/paste

4. Towel

EXTRA:

1. Kad Pengenalan

2. Buku Pink

3. Food

4. Milo 3in1

5. Cawan

6. Kurma

7. Air Zam Zam

8. Thermos we lost it. masa pindah2 taktau letak mana. 

9. Charger

10. Extra Plastik (dirty cloth)

Haaaa, list mcm nak balik kampung kan? I know! Taktau nak letak dalam beg apa ni. Haha. Mcm nak check in pegi holiday lah! Tak muat rasanya nak letak everything dalam one small beg. Hehe. Ada ke orang bawak beg tarik p hospital eh? Pernah nampak x? 

So itula list i untuk prepare dalam kereta. Nasib active car ada satu je inactive car duduk la bawah foyer tu diam diam eh. Kang x pasal pasal mummy ni kene gigih buat 2 set pulak. Tak cukup kene beli pulak. Haha. Alasan.

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