JobLess

kadang kadang rasa mcm nak jadi adviser or counselor untuk orang muda yang baru nak kawin or yang asik tukar tukar kerja ni (mcm la da expert sgt!) I ni ada masalah untuk mendengar masalah orang, sebab i xtau kenapa orang boleh berfikiran sedemikan rupa. But to just ignore but susah mcm rasa, meh la i bagi sikit advice yang tak seberapa. Maybe I patut tukar profession. I takda la expert, truth is semua kerja berbeza beza. Cuma orang muda skrg ni tak boleh nak susah sikit. Semua nak terbentang luas, taktau mcm mana mak ayah susah susah kerja cari rezeki. Lucky me my siblings semua Alhamdulillah, mau bekerja and can take advice. 

I have this close kenalan, not so close tapi kenal la. Both couple age 24 planning nak kawin in 2017 and engage 2016. And i was like, eh tak ke awal lagi. 26 nak kawin, masing-masing baru nak start kerja cari duit. Give some times lah. I tau lagi cepat kawin lagi bagus. Tak elok lewatkan perkahwinan. Tapi mestilah both ready not only nak kawin semata but mentally and physically kena ready. Bila tanya napa nak kawin awal, sebab nak have fun travel together. Ala dik. Belum kawin pun can travel together (in group) there's always way. OK tapi bab kawin ni I mmg xnk masuk campur. Cuma bab kerja ni. The guy baru dapat stable job with high salary (technical) and kena travel most of the time. The lady pulak baru tukar kerja and yet to confirm. Lady part okay la baru kerja. She's quite a smart person sebab previously kerja dekat big company (I cant recall the name) dah confirm, salary okay, CUMA.. STRESS KERJA. So decide untuk quit. STRESS kerja dik, takkan sampai quit kn. But okay la dapat big oil company contract for 1 year, kalau ok dia amik kalau x off you go. So baru 6 months and ada another 6 months to go. So I ask how was it, alaa tak challenging la, too easy and relax unlike previous company mmg sgt challenging. DIK OI, apa awak nak dalam hidup pls?

I terus like, so? Maybe taknak la proceed kerja ni. Nak quit and buat business kek. Duduk rumah jual cake. Alahai sounds so easy. Dik kalau akak tau sesimple ni punya kerja, akak da berhenti kerja jual semua benda. Tapi not just yet. You cannot quit sebab too stress, or not challenging dik. U kene starts business sebab u mmg nak. U da ada market, well known dah establish bagai baru la boleh nak start full swing.

Adik nak apa? Adik nak kerja tak stress sebab tu quit, bila dapat adik kata tak challenging too easy. Elok lah too easy so u takda la stress busy. Dik nak apa? U cannot have both kan? Alahai, penat dengar je baru. Truth is, my previous job mmg sgt busy and stressful. I feel like running away but i just go with it. Skrg pulak slightly slow phase maybe sebab I pregnant and not given that many task yet. So i just relaks and enjoy. After all, its not your job kalau kerja sikit kan? 

I use to talk with my hubs about my current work conditions. How free I was, how bersalah I am for not helping the busy person around and how incapable am I  help because my knowledge on this new field is totally zero. But what he said is true. It is all not my fault at all. I still get paid regardless. Maybe I was underpay previously (haha). He said, I just have to relax and enjoy. Why should I care so much? Its not that I did not do my job.

Yes, true! But I didnt quit. I cuma wonder patutke i ask for a transfer back to my previous job which is more ME than here. But think about it, mmg lah sebab i baru nak naik step by step mcm mana nak lari terus kan. So I stay here, patiently and learn.

Thats the beautiful part of it. U make new friends, u have different environment, I have more ME time, I can even check whats wrong with my bills (hubs notice i have a lot of free time sampai boleh check bills and complain. KehKeh.)

So make use of the free time kan? I siap calculate monthly expenses. Haha. Not to forget to calculate my baby movement! So good kan. Haaaaaa

Eh tiba tiba about diri sendiri. Back to the top, so I end up explain la, nak kawin ni bukan senang and bukan susah. Mmglah lelaki gaji besar, tapi skrg ni kerja bukan boleh cakap, kena buang bila bila je. So both kenala ready. Lepas tu nak beli rumah more than half a million harga dia, nak bayar cmna tu dik.

mmg kita perempuan, bergantunglah kepada lelaki. tapi zaman skrg ni, mcm mcm boleh jadi. so kena independent jugak. with our economy yang ramai da kena buang ni, appreciate lah kerja masing-masing. Sounds like sangat busy body kan? But it is just my 2 cents!