Updates on fb!

Terbaca newsfeed pasal orang update update on Facebook bila dapat tau pregnant and siap daily update terus bukan weekly or monthly update. Ialah with all the application dekat hand phone sometimes tak perasan ke Dia auto update and so on. I agree. We have to be more sensitive kepada yang sangat berusaha nak Anak. Dalam friendlist Kita pun x Semua diberi rezeki Anak kan? Same goes when you buy a car or a house. Itu semua rezeki dari Allah. So bukan Dalam update Hal Anak wife pregnant sahaja. In all ways kita elaklah melukakan hati our friends. 

I admit I got all excited about having our first baby. But currently im 10 weeks plus and I still Haven't share the news to anyone. I didn't post in online nor I purposely snap my tummys picture. My reason is so simple. Because I have friends who waited so long and I don't want to hurt them. But I also understand the excitement someone may have. They want to share the good news without ada niat nak menunjuk. Ialah kalau x bagitau nanti pun Ada yang Akan terluka. So back to basic. Niat. 

Even thought I believe I beloved friend takkan cakap i menunjuk I still choose not to upload anything. Kenapa kita suka assume sometimes the person it self tak rasa apa spa pun. Annoying pun xda Tapi happy to share they news. Janganlah hasad dengki. 

Walaupun mmg ada yang over excited updatenya sampai pantang smua nak bagitau kita bersangka baik udah. Maybe tu medium yang Dia Ada nak share. Husband busy ke xnk amik tau. Or husband da x sayang ke nak attention Dari her friends we wouldn't know. Niat!

Sama jugak halnya Bila kita update pegi holiday dekat langkawi bagitau Semua orang. Ada jugak orang yang tak pernah pegi langkawi. Niat Kita apa pokok pangkal. 

So always stay positive. Eliminate all negativity and stay happy. 

Love is not enough

Well im not good at writing. U can see it already. Im good at talking. Totally different. I cant write what i want to say but i can speak up! My bff is in dilemma. She love her fiance so much that it hurt her. The beauty within her slowly disappear. She stressed out. 

Giving advice may seems so easy. Being in their shoes is almost impossible. Like men, who will not understand women. So do we. We fail to understand you. Yes, you men. Yes, we are complicated, ada usaha ke nak paham? (my husband exclude okay--thats why i marry him!)

Gaji sebulan 7k-10k. kau nak kawin asik cakap xda duit. hoi abang. ingat anak orang ni free ke bole amik bawak jalan sana sini pastu bila nak kawin cakap xda duit. my bff is a Chinese cute lady. her dowry rm38k (normal for Chinese). Kau bercinta da 3 tahun. takkan la x da duit gaji sebulan pun banyak. So i pity her. Now ada problem with the mother pulak. sob sob.

Intro.

Kepada wanita2 bijaksana. Kunci kepada semua adalah communication. Always communicate and always ajar your partner to communicate sejak azali bercinta. Ini akan memudahkan you dalam banyak benda. In my past relationship, semua fail sebab xnak communicate. sorang expect bulan sorang expect laut mana nak sama dik. Speak up jangan asik agree and listen sahaja. Take action. Zaman skrg ni kita berkerja so we have to communicate mana yang mampu mana yang tidak. Bukan lepas kawin baru nak cuba communicate baru nak cuba berjinak jinak xbagi suami pegi lepak minum pegi cc semua yang. 

dont expect the guy to lead they way kalau dia mmg nawaitu berat na nak ajak kawin. U tanyala, kita bila nak kawin. Lama lama nanti dia figure it out la. Jgn la sorang nak kawin 10 tahun lagi sorang nak kawin tahun depan. jawabnya hari hari gaduh semua benda x kene. Agak agak nak settle down tu cari laki yang sama mission nak settle down jugak. Remember, love is not enough. Love is so easy to fall too. You can fall in love with anybody. Boleh? Haha

Lagi satu, kalau nak mengorat laki. pls la jgn main agak agak. Laki ni suka aku kot. Ke tak? Nak buat cmna eh. Kene tgk sign ke. What i did was. I go confront. Ask my friends kalau x caya. Pegi terus tanya. Hey, i like you. Can I have your number? Selalunya lelaki akan senyum and buat bodoh. Tapi kau cuba 3 kali. Kalau dia xnk layan kau move on sbb dia mmg x minat. Selalunya kali ke 3 kalau dia bagi tu ada chance la tu. So boleh la teruskan. Dengan cara ni, takdala kau x boleh tido malam fikir yes or no or maybe not. Kan? Tak agree? Tunggu la laki tu confess. Kalau jenis gentleman, cepatlah. Kalau tak. Beranganlah.

Speak Up. Communicate. Betul tak? Tanya personally. Do u like me? No? Ok walk away. Simple as 1 2 3

Cari another guy

move on and tak payah derita menangis salahkan lelaki bagi harapan palsu.

same goes masa dalam in relationship. kau nak apa? Nak duit? cakap. Nak kawin? Cakap. Nak pegi tgk wayang? Cakap.simpan dalam hati last last bukan dorang paham pun. Kadang dorang paham buat x paham sbb xnk layan. lagi dorang suka sbb kau x cakap apa apa. pastu kau give in. Rasa salah diri sendiri. kan?

masa nak kawin pun cakap, dinda nak duit hantaran 10k. kanda x mampu. ok berapa kanda mampu? Discuss lah. Jgn la to think later ke nanti la bincang lain ke. Educate the men untuk sentiasa discuss if that is what u expect him to do after marriage. Kalau sebelum kawin semua keputusan dia buat sendiri, kenapa lepas kawin nak get you involve kan? Da kawin lagi la dia ketua keluarga. U baru nak didik dia susah jugak tu. 

my hubs jenis suka lepak dengan kawan kawan dia. suka main futsal. suka main ps4. suka beli kasut. suka jogging. suka family. suka tgk action movie. So layankan je la minat dia selagi mampu. Dia nak pegi lepak; kalau x suka cakap. i x suka la u pegi lepak lama-lama. u balik cepat sikit ok? aaaaa win win lah. tapi my husband kalau, dia angkut sekali pegi lepak. senang katanya. haha. bila dia main futsal, i will sleep sebab 2 jam. So bila dia balik. eh rasa mcm baru pegi da balik. haa cmtu. kau kene la give in. Bila dia main ps4, main 2 game je ok? ha. dia okla la cmtu. jgn la No je terus. Kau pun kalau shopping dia No kan mmg marah punya. 

so stop being too secretive. u get stressed out. point out what you want. speak up. i tell you, we are not being bossy or queen control. its our right what as a gf. haha. 

remember, life after marriage is so beautiful u just wish you married earlier. 

so yang single, kawinlah. 

ingat 3 benda x boleh dilewat-lewatkan. 1. orang yang meninggal jgn lewat kebumi. 2. solat jgn dilewatkan. 3. anak yang da boleh kawin, kawinlah. 

so lets get married?