Terbaca newsfeed pasal orang update update on Facebook bila dapat tau pregnant and siap daily update terus bukan weekly or monthly update. Ialah with all the application dekat hand phone sometimes tak perasan ke Dia auto update and so on. I agree. We have to be more sensitive kepada yang sangat berusaha nak Anak. Dalam friendlist Kita pun x Semua diberi rezeki Anak kan? Same goes when you buy a car or a house. Itu semua rezeki dari Allah. So bukan Dalam update Hal Anak wife pregnant sahaja. In all ways kita elaklah melukakan hati our friends.
I admit I got all excited about having our first baby. But currently im 10 weeks plus and I still Haven't share the news to anyone. I didn't post in online nor I purposely snap my tummys picture. My reason is so simple. Because I have friends who waited so long and I don't want to hurt them. But I also understand the excitement someone may have. They want to share the good news without ada niat nak menunjuk. Ialah kalau x bagitau nanti pun Ada yang Akan terluka. So back to basic. Niat.
Even thought I believe I beloved friend takkan cakap i menunjuk I still choose not to upload anything. Kenapa kita suka assume sometimes the person it self tak rasa apa spa pun. Annoying pun xda Tapi happy to share they news. Janganlah hasad dengki.
Walaupun mmg ada yang over excited updatenya sampai pantang smua nak bagitau kita bersangka baik udah. Maybe tu medium yang Dia Ada nak share. Husband busy ke xnk amik tau. Or husband da x sayang ke nak attention Dari her friends we wouldn't know. Niat!
Sama jugak halnya Bila kita update pegi holiday dekat langkawi bagitau Semua orang. Ada jugak orang yang tak pernah pegi langkawi. Niat Kita apa pokok pangkal.
So always stay positive. Eliminate all negativity and stay happy.
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