bila nak bersalin

Since dah approaching 36 weeks ni, the biggest game for pregnant women apa? Besides gender it's a boy or a girl? (ni masa mula mula kan) dah hujung hujung cm I ni mestilah bila baby decide to make appearance! Heeee. True or not? The onset of labor is so mysterious and due dates are not exact and fact that only 5 percent of babies are born on their actual due date! 

There are ways to determine la mcm my gyne dia decide after 12 February kalau takda tanda kena terus datang hospital. Dua dah last date betul la tu. But based on my experience (watching!) haha, selalunya lebih awal and mcm mcm tanda yang akan terlihat. My sister sakit bersalin start dari tgh malam but she decide untuk tunggu sampai lepas subuh sebab ramai kata first baby ni bukaan lambat. Sejam bukan satu cm. =.= So dari kena duduk spital baik duduk rumah. But bila dia sampai hospital, sakit goneeee! Tapi da kena tahan. 

My BFF pulak baru 7 months tapi rasa mcm sakit perut cirit, and ada discharge sikit terus p hospital. Doctor terus berlari2 sebab da bukak banyak kena deliver (imagine, first baby also) so how to tell? My cousin pulak ada discharge sikit and p hospital tapi tunggu je la kena admit and induce but still belum deliver. 

Why ths all bother me much? Maybe sebab I pay for myself, so kalau false alarm means more charge for me. staying at the ward and all and cucuk sana sini maybe akan burst our budget. Unless I beranak kat local hospital. So our mini plan is, kalau ada discharge sket2 or sakit and blm due yang patutnya; we drop by local hospital (since government kan mmg akan transfer patient or ask patient to go back first if blm betul2 critical. Some also kena balik sebab katil penuh). So if the doctor decide boleh balik, baliklah dulu. And kalau doctor kata kena masuk ward ni tapi que bilik, berlari2 anak ke SJMC. ok tak?

JM kat KKIA kata kena p hospital kalau movement baby tak active like usual, since mine akan complete 10 kali by around 2.30 so dia kata kalau by 6 only 2 kali baby gerak p terus hospital. NOTED. And kalau ada bleeding kene terus pegi sebab xtau bleeding dari mana. NOTED. And kalau ada contraction yang tetap. Contraction ada 2. False and True. Sakit kena berturut2 and sela masa kena tetap. Kalau first pregnancy ni, dia kata each 10 minutes ada contraction and tetap, kena terus p spital. Rupanya each contraction ada bukaan. baru tau. NOTED.

Skrg ni adalah sakit sakit tapi manageable. I cant imagine the pain--since its unimaginable kan. But I hope i can go thru this. InsyaAllah.